Say This, Not That!
- Date: May 31st, 2025
Do You Want To...
Say the right words at the right time to stop petty fights before they start—so she trusts, admires, and listens to you again?
Bring back the passion and excitement in the bedroom—just like the beginning, or even better?
Get her to respect your voice and decisions—without her constantly talking over you, repeating the same questions, or shutting you down?
Handle tough conversations with confidence so problems actually get solved, and you both walk away feeling understood and at peace?
Drop the resentment, let go of the frustration, and reignite the love—so you feel wanted, appreciated, and amazing again?
Be the man she wants you to be – create the ultimate relationship experience with bae, babe, or even pookie, LOL
Imagine If..
You knew exactly what she meant —no more or guessing—just peaceful conversations.
She listens, respects your words, and actually values your advice instead of shutting you down.
You ask the right questions, know how she feels, and win more than just birthday sex.
She supports your dreams, believes in you, and you feel like THAT MAN—successful, respected, and supported.
You sleep easy at night, never worrying if you’ll lose her, or worse—lose time with your kids.
You finally get to feel like the man she wants you to be, and one you can be proud of.
Master your mindset so that you win in every aspect of your life.
I can help you get all this—and more.
But don’t just take my word for it…
See what other men have to say!
Devin
Wiston
Jasper
Johnny
Conrad
Pedro
Why I Work with Men
People ask me all the time: “Why do you work with men?”
The answer? I got tired of watching my seven brothers and male clients struggle in relationships and life.
I used to be terrible at relationships. I didn’t trust them because I was misinformed and uneducated about how men and women truly connect. But deep down, I wanted healthy, fulfilling relationships—so I started digging.
What I discovered changed everything: There’s a science to how men and women interact. There are proven formulas that help men and women build powerful, lasting relationships.
Who Am I?
- Sister to 7 brothers
- Spiritual consultant to many
- Certified Qi Gong practitioner
- 29 years as a psychotherapist & coach
- 15+ years facilitating workshops for men
- Saved hundreds of clients thousands in divorce fees
- TEDx, 2x author, and creator of The WOO Zone Academy
- Certified in anger management & sexual addiction
- Featured guest on podcasts, FOX 5 Medical, and magazines
Mountain climber
What You’ll Walk Away With (That Changes Everything)
From frustration, fights and funky attitudes …
To patience, praise, and peaceful nights
From dry, distant, and disappointing sex …
To wild, welcome, and well-earned flex
From speechless, sarcasm, and silence…
To smooth talks, smiles, and solid connections
From unrespected and unsupported…
To valued, validated, and victorious
From wishing, hoping, and begging…
To leading, winning, and effortlessly getting
From zero to hero…
To the man she brags about, not nags about
From fingers in your plate…
To finally getting served without debate
When you master communication, she’ll feel heard, understood, and drawn to you. She’ll relax, open up, and crave your presence instead of pulling away.
No more cold shoulders or distant nights—she’ll see you as the man who just gets her, making her softer, more affectionate, and eager to please. She’ll feel proud, secure, and turned on by the way you lead.
And when that happens? You get the respect, devotion, and passion you’ve been craving.
Don’t Lose Her—Speak Up!
Ignoring the problem might feel easier, but it could cost you your relationship, your family, and a ton of money in divorce fees or child support.
Don’t Let That Happen.
It’s time to learn new skills and level up your relationship. Secure your spot now!
Nathan
Yusef
Reuben
Say This, Not That!
Here's The Real Question…
Is this Bootcamp Right For You?
This Is For You, If…
- You want more sex and affection.
- You want to communicate in a way she understands.
- You want to stop the petty arguments and be respected.
- You want a strategy. No more ignoring the program and hoping it goes away.
- You want things to be the way they used to be if not better.
This Is Not For You, If…
- If you think you know it all and you don’t need help
- She understands and support you the way you like
- You’re having endless sex
- Counseling is working for you
- You think women don’t need decoding and they should stay in their place (where ever that is)
It's Time To Learn A Skill And Get Things Back To How They Used To Be
Ready To Invest In Your Relationship, Your Future?
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Here’s What You’ll Walk Away With
Decode and understand how women think and what they want.
Take home life-changing tailored scripts to address different situations.
Learn how to be the man she wants you to be and show up consistently.
Learn the position and pivot method to manage her moods.
Practice tips to master your mindset and manifest life dreams.
Increase bedroom sex without begging for it, beyond birthday sex
Conference Room
- Time: 8:00 A.M - 12:00 P.M
- Date: May 31st, 2025
- Location: 300 E. Kilbourne Avenue Tower 2, Milwaukee, WI
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why should I invest in this bootcamp?
You should enroll because what you’re doing isn’t working. If you want to improve your relationship this is the time.
How do I register?
Choose a registration level (regular or lunch with Sulonda). Questions: email sulonda@sulondasmith.com
What’s included in the bootcamp
Super packed information on how to lead in your relationship, understand women, know what to say, and master your mindset.
How will I know these techniques work?
She changes her behavior and attitude toward you, and you feel more at peace.
Do you need prior experience?
No prior experience is necessary. Just show up.
How experienced is the coach?
Super experienced. She has 27 years of experience as a psychotherapist and life coach.
Can I get a refund?
No refunds after you’ve attended the event.
Who can attend?
Men only, ages 18 and up. Married or single.
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